
Welcome to my Blog.
A place where I share all of the Wedding Planning Tips and Tricks I have learned from 12+ years in the industry.
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Where Do You Start When Planning a Wedding?
Start with the basics: budget, guest list, and a rough date. Everything else fits around those decisions.
Before diving into color schemes and cake tastings, figure out how much you can spend and who’s making the cut on the guest list. Your budget dictates everything, from venue options to whether you’re having a live band or a dodgy Spotify playlist. Once you’ve got those three sorted, the rest becomes much easier to piece together.
How Long Does It Take To Plan a Wedding?
On average, 12-18 months, but it can be done faster if you're decisive (or reckless).
A longer timeline gives you more choice in venues and vendors, but if you’re up for the challenge, you can pull it off in six months—or even less if you’re willing to be flexible. The key is staying organised and locking in major bookings early.
What’s the First Thing to Book for a Wedding?
The venue. Everything else works around that.
Your venue sets the tone, date, and even the guest list size. Popular venues book out fast, sometimes years in advance, so if you have your heart set on a particular place, get it locked in early.
How Do You Choose the Right Wedding Vendors?
Do your research, read reviews, and don’t just go for the cheapest option.
Photographers, caterers, florists—these people can make or break your day. Meet them, ask questions, and trust your gut. If they seem unreliable or their portfolio looks like it was shot on a potato, move on.
When Should You Send Out Wedding Invitations?
Aim for 6-8 weeks before the wedding, or earlier for destination weddings.
Save-the-dates go out 6-12 months ahead, giving guests a heads-up. The actual invitations should land in mailboxes with enough time for RSVPs so you can finalise catering and seating arrangements without last-minute panic.
How Do You Manage Your Wedding Budget?
Be realistic, track every expense, and expect to go slightly over.
Spreadsheets are your best friend. List every cost, prioritise non-negotiables, and leave wiggle room for unexpected expenses (because there will be some). Consider cutting things guests won’t notice—like gold-foiled place cards—to save money where it matters.
What Are the Biggest Wedding Planning Mistakes?
Leaving things too late, not setting a clear budget, and trying to please everyone.
The biggest stress comes from procrastination and unrealistic expectations. Prioritise what actually matters to you as a couple and remember that no matter how much you plan, something will go wrong—and that’s fine.
What’s the Secret to a Stress-Free Wedding Day?
Plan ahead, delegate, and accept that perfection is a myth.
Have a clear timeline, let your bridal party and vendors handle the small stuff, and remember why you’re doing this in the first place. At the end of the day, it’s about celebrating with your favourite people, not whether the napkins match the bridesmaid dresses.
Planning a wedding doesn’t have to be a nightmare. Get the big things sorted early, don’t sweat the small stuff, and enjoy the ride. Because, honestly, the best weddings are the ones where the couple actually has fun.